you are down looking upI am still thinking about the title :( and I am so sorry I forgot to write yesterday.
I went out unexpectedly and came back after midnight.
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Thought of the title while walking towards the subway.
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Truths regarding a person are particularly tricky. By someone's truth I mean his/her feelings, opinions, intentions, actions or what they know about oneself. This one is the only truth that someone possesses, they can transform truth into false and vice versa. Awesome power actually.
I don't want to seem like House saying something like "everybody lies", but people don't really hurry to tell the truth (their truth) because its personal nature makes them feel vulnerable and exposed if revealed. And who can blame them? Or better yet, who can blame us? It's very hard to be a truthful person and, commonly, they are also thought of as naive. Naive people don't lie as much as, for say, someone who is very perspicacious (yes, it actually is a word). It seems obvious to say that the difference in the degree of truthfulness in a person is given by his\her past experiences and/or level or selfishness, but I am sure that is not all. Even people with bad experiences in their past may still tell the truth even if they had been "burned" exactly because of that. And for the selfish or less selfish people it is only the matter of the selection of truth to be revealed (example the selfish may tell you something true, but hurtful while the less selfish one may not). One's values seem to play the most important role and it is also the complex answer. There are many elements in the set of values that one lives by and the experiences that could change or alter that set have to be very strong to make permanent adjustments.
I have managed to get thought that paragraph without mentioning the word "trust". I don't think that trust is the most important element in telling the truth. Of course it is very important but liars lie the one they trust and truthful people may tell the truth to ones they don't trust because they simply don't lie or accept the consequences of their truths (because of that set of values). I'd like to make a study if people tell the truth more to the ones they say they trust as opposed to the ones they don't know or don't trust.
found this . kinda like it :P although I am not 14
I went out unexpectedly and came back after midnight.
....
Thought of the title while walking towards the subway.
ador minutul 5
Truths regarding a person are particularly tricky. By someone's truth I mean his/her feelings, opinions, intentions, actions or what they know about oneself. This one is the only truth that someone possesses, they can transform truth into false and vice versa. Awesome power actually.
I don't want to seem like House saying something like "everybody lies", but people don't really hurry to tell the truth (their truth) because its personal nature makes them feel vulnerable and exposed if revealed. And who can blame them? Or better yet, who can blame us? It's very hard to be a truthful person and, commonly, they are also thought of as naive. Naive people don't lie as much as, for say, someone who is very perspicacious (yes, it actually is a word). It seems obvious to say that the difference in the degree of truthfulness in a person is given by his\her past experiences and/or level or selfishness, but I am sure that is not all. Even people with bad experiences in their past may still tell the truth even if they had been "burned" exactly because of that. And for the selfish or less selfish people it is only the matter of the selection of truth to be revealed (example the selfish may tell you something true, but hurtful while the less selfish one may not). One's values seem to play the most important role and it is also the complex answer. There are many elements in the set of values that one lives by and the experiences that could change or alter that set have to be very strong to make permanent adjustments.
I have managed to get thought that paragraph without mentioning the word "trust". I don't think that trust is the most important element in telling the truth. Of course it is very important but liars lie the one they trust and truthful people may tell the truth to ones they don't trust because they simply don't lie or accept the consequences of their truths (because of that set of values). I'd like to make a study if people tell the truth more to the ones they say they trust as opposed to the ones they don't know or don't trust.
found this . kinda like it :P although I am not 14
you are up looking down
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